Wife Swapping

You say tomato, I say tomahto. When a person hears the word swinging, one thinks both partners are swapped either for soft swap or full swap (see swingers dictionary for soft swap and full swap) and that is the gist of the LifeStyle. Believe it or not as time progresses there are much more fetishes involved in a non monogamous relationship. For example the term cuckold has recently become popular and some couples on swinger websites are very much into and enjoy that type of lifestyle. Wife Swapping was a term used long ago but is making a come back even today to describe the Lifestyle.

Ever since swapping wives and husbands has been in the picture, girlfriend swapping has become a popular trend over these recent years too. This is because society’s view has changed. Girls do not need to remain a virgin until they are married and guys can have their choices too. Both parties feel that they have the option to experience life in a more sexual way. Therefore, attached couples are now opting for such lifestyle before they are married.

Swapping girlfriends is very much the same as swapping wives, and believe it or not Mike Hatcher was swapping his girlfriends when he was younger. One would be surprised what kind of activities are happening to people 18 years of age. But the difference being a girlfriend is not someone who you are legally responsible for. There is no such thing as a marriage contract between you and her. If things don’t work out between the two of you, you can leave and move on to the next one.That is one benefit and why so many women and men age 18 and up are extremely experimental with it.

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I remember one summer up camping, it was me and my buddy, his girlfriend and mine. I had a hot girlfriend and so did he. We were drinking, and we discussed switching girlfriends, my buddies girl was down for it but mine was hesitant. His girlfriend came over to me by the fire and dropped to her knees and went down like a pro, I mean this women gave Hoover and Dyson a run for their money, I felt like the life was sucked out of me. I maintained my erection, but noticed when my friend and my girlfriend watched me I got rock hard. She stopped and went back to her boyfriend and immediately my girlfriend took over and started going down on me, it was like a competition, it was great. We decided to all go to the tent.

Once inside, my girlfriend immediately mounted me and started to ride, my friends girlfriend tried to get him into it but he could not maintain an erection. I ended up doing my girlfriend and his. Later he revealed that he just could not get it up. Some men in the lifestyle have this issues, sometimes psychologically they become too excited that they can not get an erection.

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In the Lifestlye you may come across many different couples and individuals who enjoy different sexual pleasure. Some are women who enjoy watching their husbands have sex with another woman while they watch and or join. Some men enjoy watching their wives have sex with another man while they watch, hence the term cuckold (See cuckold blog) which again has become very popular over the past few years thanks to the internet. Entering swapping or swinging does not mean that couples don’t equally love, respect, understand and trust each other. Surely for two people to be together and in love, certain elements and agreement must be satisfied to allow for swapping to take place. It is this view that both are getting equivalent enjoyment of sex with different parties and that nobody has been mistreated or disrespected in any way.

Again, swapping a girlfriend or boyfriend with your mate is also a way to enjoy sex without jealousy because both couples have agreed upon such action. Many couples believe it not only creates a stronger bond between each other but also allows them to experience theirs.

Wife swapping has no set rules. It is entirely up to you and your partner to decide the boundaries and limitations. Being involved with swinging or wife swapping, couples need not to be married. They should at least have some history of being together and familiar with each others’ needs and emotions. Here are some general rules if you are considering entering into wife swapping:

• Good Communication -

• Confidence and Comfort -

• Trust, Sensitivity and Respect -

The general rule of thumb is that wife swapping works best only when couples view swinging as an enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than to replace a fail one. Swinging is only a primarily social event.

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Before a couple decides to engage in this alternative lifestyle, they should understand what the concept means and what it entails. By definition a cuckold is a scenario where a wife (girlfriend) has sex with another man while her husband (boyfriend) watches. Although this lifestyle has never really surfaced out into the open like swingers, it is becoming more popular with every generation.

Living the life of an amateur cuckold shouldn’t be too difficult, seeing as most men don’t really have a problem in regards to having intercourse with another man’s wife. The only difference in this instance is that permission is given by the husband or lover and the only condition is that he gets to watch. A lot of guys are probably thinking who would allow this, but in most cases it is the husband who suggests it.

There are several reasons for this specific situation and it differs quite extensively from couple to couple. Some men get aroused by the mere jealousy of seeing his wife enjoying another man. Others are thrilled by the humiliation of getting replaced. The psychological elements are vast and ultimately they don’t make much sense.

The wives and girlfriends tend to be the ones who don’t like to partake in cuckolding because it could just as well damage the relationship completely. Due to the consequences involved, couples should be sure beyond a doubt that it is something they both want. For those who like the idea, it can be very pleasurable and some even opt to videotape the session for later use.

Finding the right guy for the event is a crucial step, you need a Bull like Hatcher…..just kidding. It is not recommended to use a good or close friend because it can get too personal. It is better to use a third person who won’t be seen a lot or gets invited to gatherings. Keep in mind that there are real-life dangers that come with the territory and meeting the new guy a few times before actually engaging in a cuckold should be priority.

In addition make sure the candidate is clean in the sense of STD’s. The last thing a couple wants is to contract a terminal or unnecessary illness which could have been avoided. It might start small, but the part sperm plays becomes very powerful after a while and discarding the dangers would be foolish. Once the screening process is complete and both parties can agree to the limits and expectations, the fun can start so-to-speak.

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There are many motivating factors that attracts a woman to the cuckold lifestyle. Less often, some women suggest introducing an alternative intimate lifestyle for the sexual variety into their marriage/relationship. There are other factors that attract married women to the cuckold lifestyle. Some typical motivations that enable women to initiate or try this lifestyle are:

• Breaking a taboo.
• Enjoying sexual adventure that might be lacking in the marriage.
• Humiliating the cheating husband or boyfriend
• Being the center of attention.
• Satisfying her unexplored sexual desires.
• Indulging in a different form of exhibitionism.
• Desire to indulge in their innate desires.

For some women, being in a monogamous relationship is not easy. Rather than cheating on their husband, becoming a cuckold wife just seems more natural to them. Others, who crave different sexual experiences and adventures, might also feel more inclined to live this lifestyle.

Some swinger couples gradually prefer gravitating to a cuckoldry lifestyle. This is because as a man ages, he may  start to lose some of his sexual energies, while on the other hand, a woman’s appetite for sex remains the same on increases. In many situations, such couples make a slow transition to cuckoldry.

Another category of people who prefers to adopt this kind of lifestyle includes couples  in their fifties or older. This occurs when a woman in her fifties takes hormone replacement therapy to prevent hot-flashes and osteoporosis. As a side effect, they experience a huge boost in their libido right when her husband’s sexual desires are decreasing.

In such circumstances, the woman finds herself sexually frustrated and the man becomes depressed due to his inability to satisfy his woman. Thus, both partners feel relieved when they work out a cuckold-related arrangement. The cuckold lifestyle can be fun and adventurous for both the husband and wife.

It is important to understand that the needs and desires of no two couples are the same. There are many ways for couples to engage in some form of alternate sexual lifestyle and cuckold wives is one of the most preferable ones after swingers.

If you or your wife is looking to revive the sexual experiences in your marriage, then try a  cuckold lifestyle.  It is a great and entertaining way for women to meet their sexual desires, without being called a “cheating woman”. In most situations, it is also a way for women to break the taboo and explore her sexual adventures. Its best to discuss the lifestyle in detail with your partner beforehand. This will ensure everyone is on the same page thus making it a smooth and acceptable transition.

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A cuckold type of relationship is rare and very few people live this type of lifestyle. There are many challenges so only a few people manage to make it a success. In a cuckold relationship, a partner which tends to be the male, watches his wife/girlfriend engage in sexual relations with another man. The wife/girlfriend or in some cases the male partner will choose a man known as a cuckold bull to pleasure her.The male remains loyal while allowing his wife/girlfriend to fulfill her desires. The key pillars for those who want to make their cuckold relationship a success are loyalty and trust. Despite the fact that such a relationship poses a lot of challenges, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the partners.

In order for this type of relationship to work, couples will have to make it their own. They  discuss the parameters for their relationship and come to an agreement on how to move forward. Communication and understanding are other important factors necessary for a cuckold relationship to work well.

Some men engage in a cuckold relationship just to watch their partner with another. Others enjoy hearing how their lover enjoyed being taken by another while they watched. Those who like watching their partners having sex with another man have a right to participate in some way during the sex session. One of the ways in which they can be involved is by touching fondling, holding their partners’ legs etc. This lifestyle is not for everyone, as some men would hate the idea of their female partner making love to other men, while others get off on it. To each their own.

It is really important for the men in cuckold relationships to value their partner. Making the lady know that you love and value her will increase the bond between the two of you and her respect for you will increase. It is not advisable for one to have a cuckold relationship especially if there is no trust or if the relationship isn’t strong enough. Deciding to have a cuckold relationship will also depend on another important factor, your current sex life.

A larger percentage of cuckold relationships involve a man and a woman who have been married for a long time with cemented trust and understanding. They engage in such a relationship to satisfy a desire that they themselves are not able to give to their partner. Some people crave this type of lifestyle, but not all can endure. Be sure to communicate with your partner if this is the direction you wish to take your relationship. If you want to connect with other cuckold couples or to find a cuckold bull to make this a reality.

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There are a wide range of reasons for a couple to involve in a cuckold relationship.

In some cases, the man is the one initiating this lifestyle, maybe as part of a sexual fantasy of seeing his female with other men. He mentions his fantasies to his woman partner, who reacts to it by accepting the change in lifestyle.

Other men become attracted to the cuckold lifestyle when they age and lose sexual stamina. Take for instance, a husband who in his 50s is unable to please his partner sexually. In order to keep his woman sexually satisfied, he agrees to become a cuckold. The woman now has the best of both worlds, sexual freedom and the ability to keep her existing relationship, while her partner remains faithful to her.

Some other men develop a cuckold fantasy partly based on guilty feeling of not being able to satisfy their wife and partly based on voyeuristic interests. Some men just like to watch.

For men, the benefits of being in a cuckold relationship satisfies some fantasies, voyeuristic fetishes, keeps a relationship going in the case of loss of sexual stamina, or it can simply be an ego boost from having a partner desired by other men.

It happens less often, but some woman may suggest engaging in a cuckold lifestyle. They have never accepted being in a monogamous relationship and to them cuckoldry just seems natural. Other women just enjoy breaking a taboo, or crave adventure and variety.

These women tend to be motivated by sexual freedom and variety of living such a lifestyle. Other typical motivations for woman who initiate a cuckold lifestyle are humiliating her boyfriend/husband, breaking a taboo, being the center of attention, indulging in some form of exhibitionism, enjoying some new adventures and sexual romance, as well as satisfying her sexual desires.

In this lifestyle it is important to be aware that no two situations or couples are alike. Couples can engage in a form of cuckold lifestyle for many different reasons and their relationship can evolve in limitless ways

A cuckold relationship was in the past a scandalous relationship. In these old style cuckold relationships often the husband chose to remain silent about the wife’s infidelity and to ignore their cuckold status. In modern cuckoldry, the boyfriend or husband is fully aware of his status and is fully accepting of it. However, modern cuckoldry is not mainstream and it is still a fringe lifestyle or taboo.

In cuckold relationships, the boyfriend or the husband is usually not interested in having sex with other women and is satisfied with experiencing his female partner’s sexual experiences. This idea may seem at odds with human tendencies toward possessiveness, jealousy as well as cultural conditioning. In ensuring the success of the transition to a cuckold lifestyle, both partner need to shift their focus on commitment and love to hold their relationship together rather than the cultural and social conditioning about sexual exclusivity that cater to insecurities and jealousies.

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Are you facing troubles in the bedroom? Did you know that there are benefits of a cuckold relationship? One of the major defects of facing an incomplete sex life is that it places a major strain on your relationship. Several couples in the world tend to visit psychologists just for analyzing the issues arising due to certain circumstances within the relationship. If it has something to do with being satisfied sexually, perhaps shifting to an alternate lifestyle is a better option? Welcome to the world of cuckold couples where major activities of sexual intimacy take place with another individual. Wife swapping has become a popular trend which is more or less considered a form of recreation where the husband watches his wife participate in oral/physical sex with another partner. Couples willing to experiment by reading and watching cuckold erotic stories can easily be influenced by this alternative lifestyle.

Advantages of Cuckold Lifestyle

The world might obey the old rituals of love and marriage but there are couples in the world that prefer to be slightly experimental. If you’re bored of your old sex life and wish to try something new with your partner, swinging should definitely be on the menu. For couples who can feel comfortable and aroused while watching their beloved being physically intimate with another person demands major amount of trust. A cuckold lifestyle consists of a husband with an adulterous wife however this kind of lifestyle is definitely new and inspiring. It might not be the conventional relationship you expect but the concept of experimenting with sex with another individual while being watched by your spouse can certainly be a turn-on for several couples.

The kind of communication you need for this kind of lifestyle is brilliant and open. If you can easily get physical with another individual then you’re calling for immediate freedom and space. Such a relationship if possible can easily remove all kinds of communication gaps that may exist between two people. While swinging has become a popular trend it is also a sexual fetish that has caught the attention of many couples. It is one of the ideal forms of improving your sex life and in this manner increasing chances of talking to your spouse. If you’re participating in cuckold lifestyle, both partners must be absolutely calm, patient and understanding. This attitude can change your relationship completely.

Having a monogamous relationship can be quite boring but if you’re trying new doors, you might just impress your lover. In fact the very idea behind experimenting is to introduce oneself to different tactics in bed. Swinging is an alternative lifestyle that supplies intelligent knowledge with respect to sexual activities. The fun and recreation you will experience while watching your spouse being intimate with someone else can open your mind to new ideas. It benefits the relationship by building a line of trust and security. By being honest with your partner about such a lifestyle ensures that you don’t face insecurity issues in the future. In fact there is no shame in being experimental when it comes to sex especially if your partner is interested as well.

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A cuckold relationship can often throw up a number of challenges, and this type of lifestyle is not for everyone. The relationship involves one member of the partnership, usually the male, watching, or knowing about his partner having sexual relations outside of the relationship. A cuckold relationship will often be one that is based on trust, intimacy and loyalty. Although a cuckold relationship can be difficult, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the couple. Here are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship.

1. Carry out the practice in the correct manner

Many cuckold relationships involve a married couple who are both trusting of each other. The male will often get sexually aroused by watching or knowing about his partner having sexual relations with other people. There needs to be a level of trust and intimacy to start with in a cuckold relationship. The practice is never a good idea if the relationship is already having problems or there are deep-seated trust issues. There is a risk that the relationship could break down if these issues are not addressed first. The couple will need to discuss whether having a cuckold relationship is right for them and they may reach this decision based on a number of different factors, such as how long they have been together, the level of trust they have, and the state of their current sex life.

2. Be loyal

A couple involved in a cuckold relationship will need to remain loyal to each other and the practice should never be used as an excuse for one partner to get out of a loveless marriage, or if a relationship that is breaking down. Each partner will need to convince the other that the practice is strictly sexual, and that emotions should be left to one side. The husband may fear his wife will develop an emotional relationship with the third party, and this will also need to be addressed before the practice takes place. Cuckoldry should be seen as a normal, healthy sexual fetish and not something that will damage the lives of anyone who wants to take part in the act. Individuals will need to have a certain level of self-esteem and confidence and be secure in their own relationship to differentiate between the sexual act and any emotional aspect of the practice. Before taking part in cuckoldry, both partners will need to sit down and have a long and frank discussion about what they want to get out of the act, whether they have any concerns, what the practice will entail, and whether there will be any long-lasting effect on the future of the relationship. Above all the couple must establish rules they can both live with. Another good piece of advice is to read stories here: Cuckold Stories

3. Keep it fun

During the act or after the act has taken place, there should be no feelings of betrayal or guilt. The cuckold couple should see their relationship as one that is sexually varied and open to experimentation, rather than one that is sinful or shameful. Perhaps it would be good to equate the practice to a hobby or interest rather than a way of life. There will be more components to a cuckold couple than just sex, and there will be a number of foundations on which the relationship is based on such as trust, loyalty, and devotion, which will take precedence over any sexual act.

4. Be safe

Once a couple has decided that they want to partake in cuckoldry, they will then have to choose a third party. In most cases it is the women who will be having sexual relations with a different partner, and she must make sure that she is completely comfortable with her new partner. The couple will need to choose a third party that they can trust. This can either be someone that the couple knows or someone they have met on a swingers website where they will be able to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy threesomes and foursomes. It is advisable that all three members of the party discuss what they want to get out of the sexual act, either in person, or online, and whether there are any pre-requisites or general dos and don’ts. This can help to ease the mind of everyone involved, allowing them to enjoy the practice much more. Communication is a very important aspect of the cuckold relationship, and all issues will need to be addressed before anything develops.

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Talking about hotwifing is one thing but did you know there are 3 places you should consider the hotwife should have sex with her lover at?  A common question from couples who have decided to take their first forays into the hotwife lifestyle is, in effect, “where are we going to do it?”.

And it’s a question with an answer that’s not always as simple and straightforward as you might think. It’s a little amusing at times, because it always turns out the fantasy has never really developed beyond the “watching my wife in bed” stage for most men. Exactly where that bed is doesn’t really enter into the equation.

And it’s important because men and women often have very different views on a lot of this.

So let’s look at some of the common answers to this question, along with the pros and cons of each.

1. Your own bed.

This is the obvious one and, if truth be told, it seems to be where most couples gravitate eventually, with the wife bringing her lover home and making love to him in the marital bed either with the husband present or not.

The advantages are obvious: it’s easy, has minimal arrangements necessary, and you feel like you’re on home ground, which can be very important.

The potential problem, though, is many women feel a deep emotional attachment to the marital bed, and may be very uncomfortable at having a man who’s not her husband in it. See my other articles for how unwanted emotions can creep in when you’re hotwifing, and how to deal with them.

2. In your wife’s lover’s bed

This is another fairly obvious answer and while it might be easier on the woman, it’s often harder on the man, especially if he’s not present.

One of the things about hotwifing is the husband often has the desire, almost a need, really, to watch his wife in action. While this can present difficulties all of its own, you’ll often find her new lover is not comfortable having another man in his bedroom — especially when it’s his lover’s husband!

And, of course, there’s also the fact many husbands, for all sorts of good reasons, don’t feel right with their wives being alone in another man’s house. This isn’t necessarily just about the sex they’re having, either — there’s the whole safety issue, whether it’s actually rational or not.

3. In a hotel room

This is perhaps the best choice of all, especially for couples are new to the hotwife lifestyle.

The biggest disadvantage is it obviously costs money, but you can split the cost between her and him. Or, if you decide to meet there and get two rooms (so she can come back to yours when she’s finished making love with him), you’d pay for your own.

But the advantage of this way of it is you’re all on neutral ground. Even if you’re not all staying the night, then you can wait down in the bar for her. It gives you both that feeling of safety and security because you’re close enough to be supportive, but far enough away not to be a pest. Just make sure your wife’s lover books and pays for the room in his own name (with ID, too) even if she then reimburses him.

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WHAT CUCKOLDING AND HOTWIFING SHARE WITH SPERM COMPETITION SYNDROME

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 28, 2016

Curious What Cuckolding and Hotwifing Share With Sperm Competition Syndrome? If you are a married woman whose husband has expressed desire to see you have sex with another man or if you are a married man who longs to see your wife make love to another man then you should know that this behavior is perfectly natural. It is what is known as the sperm competition syndrome. Almost all men are born with this syndrome. Some simply choose to express it freely while others choose to hide it. This syndrome has ledREAD MORE

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LEARN THE JOYS OF HOTWIFING IN A HAPPY MARRIAGE

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 20, 2016

Learn The Joys Of Hotwifing In A Happy Marriage. Love is all about sharing and having collective experience with another human being. The same is true for any marriage and this is why it is important to share things inside of this relationship as well. For many couples, this idea is valid at the beginning of their marriage, but then gradually falls apart, either with a lot of noise or silently, day by day. For others, who can be even newlyweds, the same idea might sound true, but at theREAD MORE

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HOTWIFING ISSUES: DO MEN LOVE THEIR WIVES?

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | March 30, 2015

Do you believe that men can still love their wives even though they are involved in Hotwifing? Most women wonder if their men are really into them, reason being that their soul mate advises them to be intimately involved with other men. Some of these women may wonder if what they are being required to do is really possible. It is easy to come into terms with what these women are thinking of the Hotwifing issue, this is because these women have some outlook on how relationship should be and whatREAD MORE

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Cuckold, you’ve probably heard the word and to some extent, you are somewhat certain it is “kinky”… but what really is a cuckold? What happens? And most significantly…what are its benefits? Contrary to common opinion, cuckolding has a lot of surprising benefits to a couple.

In the current times, Cuckolding has become among the fastest rising alternative lifestyles. It is a discrete lifestyle featuring a husband and his wife where by mutual consent, they agree to involve another man to have sexual relations with the wife or the wife has an alternative of dating other men. In this arrangement, the husband is referred to as the cuckold, the wife acquires the term ‘hotwife’, and the other man is called the bull.

Cuckolds come in three major types; submissive, forced bisexual, voyeurs and extreme cuckolding. In submissive cuckold, the husband achieves sexual satisfaction by seeing how much more the ‘bull’ is superior to him in bed. In forced bisexual, satisfaction is achieved since he is allowed in a non-judgmental setting, to explore his innate gay fantasies by watching another man naked and having sex. For the voyeurs simply find pleasure merely by watching another man making his wife climax. In extreme cuckolding the will be bred, inseminated and impregnated by her bull with full knowledge and consent of everyone.

Why Women Enjoy Cuckolding

There are numerous benefits for a woman in a cuckold relationship and one is that it satisfies an increase in libido normally experienced by women between 27 years of age and 45. Moreover, in this relationship, a woman is the centre of attention since she gets most pleasure which ultimately plays positively to her overall happiness. Finally, it allows them to indulge in their sexual fantasies and desires of multiple partners in a safe non-judgmental setting.

Why Men Enjoy Cuckolding

Husbands experience remarkable excitement in the process of getting their wives ready for the other man. For them, the thought inspires excitement which if correctly handled, is sexually satisfying. Aside from the anticipation, some husbands may achieve satisfaction and orgasms on the very act of penetration. For cuckolding to be deemed authentic, the husband though in the sidelines, must watch the wife getting pleased by another guy. Most couples that have done this will acclaim that their husbands get off instantly on seeing the ‘bull’ insert their penis into their wives. The ensuing expressions, utterances and moans instantly arouse their husbands.

Although by the norms of a deceitful society, it is deemed wrong, the resulting benefits and satisfaction it provides for the individuals as highlighted by testimonies of numerous cuckolding couples and researches are immense and un-imaginable.

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WHAT CUCKOLDING AND HOTWIFING SHARE WITH SPERM COMPETITION SYNDROME

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4 TIPS TO MAKE A CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIP WORK

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | January 28, 2015

A cuckold relationship can often throw up a number of challenges, and this type of lifestyle is not for everyone. The relationship involves one member of the partnership, usually the male, watching, or knowing about his partner having sexual relations outside of the relationship. A cuckold relationship will often be one that is based on trust, intimacy and loyalty. Although a cuckold relationship can be difficult, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the couple. Here are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship.READ MORE

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BENEFITS OF CUCKOLD LIFESTYLE FOR COUPLES

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | December 9, 2014

Are you facing troubles in the bedroom? Did you know that there are benefits of a cuckold relationship? One of the major defects of facing an incomplete sex life is that it places a major strain on your relationship. Several couples in the world tend to visit psychologists just for analyzing the issues arising due to certain circumstances within the relationship. If it has something to do with being satisfied sexually, perhaps shifting to an alternate lifestyle is a better option? Welcome to the world of cuckold couples where majorREAD MORE

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CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIPS

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | June 23, 2014

There are a wide range of reasons for a couple to involve in a cuckold relationship. In some cases, the man is the one initiating this lifestyle, maybe as part of a sexual fantasy of seeing his female with other men. He mentions his fantasies to his woman partner, who reacts to it by accepting the change in lifestyle. Other men become attracted to the cuckold lifestyle when they age and lose sexual stamina. Take for instance, a husband who in his 50s is unable to please his partner sexually.READ MORE

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A BASIC UNDERSTANDING OF CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIPS

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | February 25, 2014

A cuckold type of relationship is rare and very few people live this type of lifestyle. There are many challenges so only a few people manage to make it a success. In a cuckold relationship, a partner which tends to be the male, watches his wife/girlfriend engage in sexual relations with another man. The wife/girlfriend or in some cases the male partner will choose a man known as a cuckold bull to pleasure her.The male remains loyal while allowing his wife/girlfriend to fulfill her desires. The key pillars for thoseREAD MORE

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A Cuckquean is a very unique kind of relationship. Here, a woman enjoys watching her husband having sex with another woman. This kind of relationship offers some advantages to both men and women. Although most people feel that a woman will get jealous if she sees her husband with another woman, but if you are a fetish lover, then you will definitely enjoy it.

You will enter this kind of relationship only after having a proper discussion with your husband. Hence, you will obviously not feel betrayed because you know that you are not being cheated on.

After seeing your husband with another woman, you will go through a lot of feelings initially. It may also increase your desire to have sex.

The advantages which a cuckquean relationship offers to a woman are:

1. Satisfy your fetish:

Cuckquean is also a fetish and just like every other fetish, it has to be satisfied. Hence, it will be best to go forward and arrange for your husband to have sex with another woman. It will be slightly difficult in the beginning. Hence, you should sit with your lover and discuss about your relationship. After you manage to strike out a deal with him, it will be much easier for you and you will enjoy the new relationship.

2. Avoid Adulterous Partner:

If you someday find out that your partner is adulterous, then you will get extremely hurt and disappointed. However, since you enter a cuckquean relationship voluntarily, you won’t feel betrayed. It is actually a very strange and different kind of feeling when you first see your husband with another person. If your husband enjoys the sex, then you will also feel mentally satisfied, that you have allowed your lover to fulfill his sexual desires.

3. Make sure that your husband is fully satisfied:

Many women are unable to meet the sexual needs of their husbands because of some reason. Hence, they often feel guilty and feel that they are stopping their husband from living a satisfied sexual life. If you are one of those women, then entering a cuckquean relationship will be the best and the most effective option. This way, you can still be in a happy relationship with your husband without feeling guilty. It will make you feel much better. You can start this kind of relationship in many ways. But initially, you have to find a woman, who you think will be perfect for the both of you.

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Learn all about hotwifing in this tell all ultimate guide. It is true to say that women tend to get raw deal when it comes to finding great information and secrets of being a hotwife. This is because the information available on internet is written by men to other men and the material that is written for women is all about what they get up to rather than how to make it work. In other words, it is also written primarily for men. This piece will narrow down at hotwifing basics as well as the pleasure that women get from it.

If you are a woman and looking to take your husband up on the deal, now you will have the chance to make it work instead of blowing up in his face. It is imperative to start by saying, always ensure that you are free and truthful with details to your husband if want success on hotwife path. Make sure you disclose every bit about yourself to your husband. With hotwifing, a husband wants to hear every last detail. If you play coy and you keep things to yourself, I promise you, it won’t work well. It is not that he wants to be around you so that he can be assured of your safety, but he wants to see it happening because he can’t watch you always. The following are pleasures that women enjoy from hotwifing.

Healthy and Improved Relationships

Women who have mastered every bit of hotwifing experience more emotional and physical intimacy and end up having better sex, having it even more often and being more adventurous when you do it. During love making you find that you go to an extent of making your husband more satisfied with great sex just because of the hotwife role you play.

You Bloom

This is quite hard to explain and describe, but it is easier to spot it. Women always love to be found attractive. More so, they love to be a woman of a strong and a confident man. So in being a hotwife, women stand the pleasure of getting the share of both worlds. You find that your husband builds self-esteem because they find you attractive and obviously because they are strong and confident they will allow you go out and spread your wings, so to speak. Through these women becomes more aware of themselves, more sexually adventurous and starts to take pride in their appearance.

Skyrocketed Self-esteem

Finally, women who go down on hotwifing path usually enjoy the pleasure of living a newly self-aware and liberated life. It is noticeable and you must be in it to realize what this point drives home. All the best in your hotwife endeavors.

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POSITIVE BENEFITS AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ASPECTS OF HOTWIFING

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | October 24, 2016

At first glance, it would seem ‘obvious’ that hotwife where a woman has sex with men other than her husband, but with her husband’s knowledge, consent and often at his urging would be disastrous for any marriage, no matter how strong.The reasons men are so often drawn to encouraging their wives to become hotwives is complex, but it boils down to biology and the way they’re made. In other words, they don’t choose their fantasy: their DNA chooses it for them.And it’s this factor most women miss when their manREAD MORE

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WHAT CUCKOLDING AND HOTWIFING SHARE WITH SPERM COMPETITION SYNDROME

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 28, 2016

Curious What Cuckolding and Hotwifing Share With Sperm Competition Syndrome? If you are a married woman whose husband has expressed desire to see you have sex with another man or if you are a married man who longs to see your wife make love to another man then you should know that this behavior is perfectly natural. It is what is known as the sperm competition syndrome. Almost all men are born with this syndrome. Some simply choose to express it freely while others choose to hide it. This syndrome has ledREAD MORE

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LEARN THE JOYS OF HOTWIFING IN A HAPPY MARRIAGE

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 20, 2016

Learn The Joys Of Hotwifing In A Happy Marriage. Love is all about sharing and having collective experience with another human being. The same is true for any marriage and this is why it is important to share things inside of this relationship as well. For many couples, this idea is valid at the beginning of their marriage, but then gradually falls apart, either with a lot of noise or silently, day by day. For others, who can be even newlyweds, the same idea might sound true, but at theREAD MORE

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Quickly learn why every man should watch his wife or girlfriend have sex with another man. The hotwife or cuckolding fantasy is a very popular one for men, but even though they think about it often, it’s rare they actually think about it very deeply.And the problem with this is the things you need to do to make the hotwife lifestyle appeal to your wife means sitting down and thinking about it a little more deeply than you have been doing — simply because when it comes to these things, men and women have a very different approach.

Consider: For men, the cuckolding fantasy is really all about watching, hearing and having their beloved relate her experiences of having the hottest, dirtiest sex imaginable with another man.

That’s it. It is to romance what the Terminator films are to erudition.

But for women, that idea simply does not appeal. I’m not saying women don’t have powerful sex urges like men do — of course they do. But for most women the emotional component comes in first. Sure a lot of women have had no-strings one-night stands, but it’s far rarer than it is among men (and the fact we remark upon it when we hear about it tells us it’s so much rarer).

So when a man describes his desires and motivations for getting his wife to cuckold him, he usually sets about it in entirely the wrong way — because he’ll try to sell her on the idea of a wild night of rampant sex with a virtual stranger while her husband watches.

For so, so many reasons, most women will find that a bigger and quicker turn off than a string vest and nasal hair.

Here’s an alternative scenario for the…

Ultimate Hotwife Night

OK, so let’s imagine you’ve sold her on the idea of sleeping with someone else at least in principle and you’ve NOT fried her brain with visions of hot, dirty sex as seen in your favorite porn film (that’ll all come later as she grows into her role as a hotwife).

How you do this is beyond the scope of this article, but it’s not as hard as you might imagine.

But supposing you’ve done that, now picture this:

You, your wife and your wife’s prospective new lover have had a nice meal together and shared a few bottles of wine. Everyone’s feeling it, but no one’s drunk or anything like that.

You’ve both invited him over and she’s said in principle he’s OK… but no promises.

All the time they’re unself­con­sciously flirt­ing with each other drop­ping lots of hints and innuendo, and you’re encouraging them with your comments, smiles and body language.

Then there comes that moment when they exchange that look, she takes his hand, smiles at you and leads him up to your bed­room, leaving you to clear away the dishes that remain and lock up for the night.

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There are many motivating factors that attracts a woman to the cuckold lifestyle. Less often, some women suggest introducing an alternative intimate lifestyle for the sexual variety into their marriage/relationship. There are other factors that attract married women to the cuckold lifestyle. Some typical motivations that enable women to initiate or try this lifestyle are:

• Breaking a taboo.
• Enjoying sexual adventure that might be lacking in the marriage.
• Humiliating the cheating husband or boyfriend
• Being the center of attention.
• Satisfying her unexplored sexual desires.
• Indulging in a different form of exhibitionism.
• Desire to indulge in their innate desires.

For some women, being in a monogamous relationship is not easy. Rather than cheating on their husband, becoming a cuckold wife just seems more natural to them. Others, who crave different sexual experiences and adventures, might also feel more inclined to live this lifestyle.

Some swinger couples gradually prefer gravitating to a cuckoldry lifestyle. This is because as a man ages, he may  start to lose some of his sexual energies, while on the other hand, a woman’s appetite for sex remains the same on increases. In many situations, such couples make a slow transition to cuckoldry.

Another category of people who prefers to adopt this kind of lifestyle includes couples  in their fifties or older. This occurs when a woman in her fifties takes hormone replacement therapy to prevent hot-flashes and osteoporosis. As a side effect, they experience a huge boost in their libido right when her husband’s sexual desires are decreasing.

In such circumstances, the woman finds herself sexually frustrated and the man becomes depressed due to his inability to satisfy his woman. Thus, both partners feel relieved when they work out a cuckold-related arrangement. The cuckold lifestyle can be fun and adventurous for both the husband and wife.

It is important to understand that the needs and desires of no two couples are the same. There are many ways for couples to engage in some form of alternate sexual lifestyle and cuckold wives is one of the most preferable ones after swingers.

If you or your wife is looking to revive the sexual experiences in your marriage, then try a  cuckold lifestyle.  It is a great and entertaining way for women to meet their sexual desires, without being called a “cheating woman”. In most situations, it is also a way for women to break the taboo and explore her sexual adventures. Its best to discuss the lifestyle in detail with your partner beforehand. This will ensure everyone is on the same page thus making it a smooth and acceptable transition.

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A cuckold type of relationship is rare and very few people live this type of lifestyle. There are many challenges so only a few people manage to make it a success. In a cuckold relationship, a partner which tends to be the male, watches his wife/girlfriend engage in sexual relations with another man. The wife/girlfriend or in some cases the male partner will choose a man known as a cuckold bull to pleasure her.The male remains loyal while allowing his wife/girlfriend to fulfill her desires. The key pillars for those who want to make their cuckold relationship a success are loyalty and trust. Despite the fact that such a relationship poses a lot of challenges, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the partners.

In order for this type of relationship to work, couples will have to make it their own. They  discuss the parameters for their relationship and come to an agreement on how to move forward. Communication and understanding are other important factors necessary for a cuckold relationship to work well.

Some men engage in a cuckold relationship just to watch their partner with another. Others enjoy hearing how their lover enjoyed being taken by another while they watched. Those who like watching their partners having sex with another man have a right to participate in some way during the sex session. One of the ways in which they can be involved is by touching fondling, holding their partners’ legs etc. This lifestyle is not for everyone, as some men would hate the idea of their female partner making love to other men, while others get off on it. To each their own.

It is really important for the men in cuckold relationships to value their partner. Making the lady know that you love and value her will increase the bond between the two of you and her respect for you will increase. It is not advisable for one to have a cuckold relationship especially if there is no trust or if the relationship isn’t strong enough. Deciding to have a cuckold relationship will also depend on another important factor, your current sex life.

A larger percentage of cuckold relationships involve a man and a woman who have been married for a long time with cemented trust and understanding. They engage in such a relationship to satisfy a desire that they themselves are not able to give to their partner. Some people crave this type of lifestyle, but not all can endure. Be sure to communicate with your partner if this is the direction you wish to take your relationship. If you want to connect with other cuckold couples or to find a cuckold bull to make this a reality.

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There are a wide range of reasons for a couple to involve in a cuckold relationship.

In some cases, the man is the one initiating this lifestyle, maybe as part of a sexual fantasy of seeing his female with other men. He mentions his fantasies to his woman partner, who reacts to it by accepting the change in lifestyle.

Other men become attracted to the cuckold lifestyle when they age and lose sexual stamina. Take for instance, a husband who in his 50s is unable to please his partner sexually. In order to keep his woman sexually satisfied, he agrees to become a cuckold. The woman now has the best of both worlds, sexual freedom and the ability to keep her existing relationship, while her partner remains faithful to her.

Some other men develop a cuckold fantasy partly based on guilty feeling of not being able to satisfy their wife and partly based on voyeuristic interests. Some men just like to watch.

For men, the benefits of being in a cuckold relationship satisfies some fantasies, voyeuristic fetishes, keeps a relationship going in the case of loss of sexual stamina, or it can simply be an ego boost from having a partner desired by other men.

It happens less often, but some woman may suggest engaging in a cuckold lifestyle. They have never accepted being in a monogamous relationship and to them cuckoldry just seems natural. Other women just enjoy breaking a taboo, or crave adventure and variety.

These women tend to be motivated by sexual freedom and variety of living such a lifestyle. Other typical motivations for woman who initiate a cuckold lifestyle are humiliating her boyfriend/husband, breaking a taboo, being the center of attention, indulging in some form of exhibitionism, enjoying some new adventures and sexual romance, as well as satisfying her sexual desires.

In this lifestyle it is important to be aware that no two situations or couples are alike. Couples can engage in a form of cuckold lifestyle for many different reasons and their relationship can evolve in limitless ways

A cuckold relationship was in the past a scandalous relationship. In these old style cuckold relationships often the husband chose to remain silent about the wife’s infidelity and to ignore their cuckold status. In modern cuckoldry, the boyfriend or husband is fully aware of his status and is fully accepting of it. However, modern cuckoldry is not mainstream and it is still a fringe lifestyle or taboo.

In cuckold relationships, the boyfriend or the husband is usually not interested in having sex with other women and is satisfied with experiencing his female partner’s sexual experiences. This idea may seem at odds with human tendencies toward possessiveness, jealousy as well as cultural conditioning. In ensuring the success of the transition to a cuckold lifestyle, both partner need to shift their focus on commitment and love to hold their relationship together rather than the cultural and social conditioning about sexual exclusivity that cater to insecurities and jealousies.

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Are you facing troubles in the bedroom? Did you know that there are benefits of a cuckold relationship? One of the major defects of facing an incomplete sex life is that it places a major strain on your relationship. Several couples in the world tend to visit psychologists just for analyzing the issues arising due to certain circumstances within the relationship. If it has something to do with being satisfied sexually, perhaps shifting to an alternate lifestyle is a better option? Welcome to the world of cuckold couples where major activities of sexual intimacy take place with another individual. Wife swapping has become a popular trend which is more or less considered a form of recreation where the husband watches his wife participate in oral/physical sex with another partner. Couples willing to experiment by reading and watching cuckold erotic stories can easily be influenced by this alternative lifestyle.

Advantages of Cuckold Lifestyle

The world might obey the old rituals of love and marriage but there are couples in the world that prefer to be slightly experimental. If you’re bored of your old sex life and wish to try something new with your partner, swinging should definitely be on the menu. For couples who can feel comfortable and aroused while watching their beloved being physically intimate with another person demands major amount of trust. A cuckold lifestyle consists of a husband with an adulterous wife however this kind of lifestyle is definitely new and inspiring. It might not be the conventional relationship you expect but the concept of experimenting with sex with another individual while being watched by your spouse can certainly be a turn-on for several couples.

The kind of communication you need for this kind of lifestyle is brilliant and open. If you can easily get physical with another individual then you’re calling for immediate freedom and space. Such a relationship if possible can easily remove all kinds of communication gaps that may exist between two people. While swinging has become a popular trend it is also a sexual fetish that has caught the attention of many couples. It is one of the ideal forms of improving your sex life and in this manner increasing chances of talking to your spouse. If you’re participating in cuckold lifestyle, both partners must be absolutely calm, patient and understanding. This attitude can change your relationship completely.

Having a monogamous relationship can be quite boring but if you’re trying new doors, you might just impress your lover. In fact the very idea behind experimenting is to introduce oneself to different tactics in bed. Swinging is an alternative lifestyle that supplies intelligent knowledge with respect to sexual activities. The fun and recreation you will experience while watching your spouse being intimate with someone else can open your mind to new ideas. It benefits the relationship by building a line of trust and security. By being honest with your partner about such a lifestyle ensures that you don’t face insecurity issues in the future. In fact there is no shame in being experimental when it comes to sex especially if your partner is interested as well.

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A cuckold relationship can often throw up a number of challenges, and this type of lifestyle is not for everyone. The relationship involves one member of the partnership, usually the male, watching, or knowing about his partner having sexual relations outside of the relationship. A cuckold relationship will often be one that is based on trust, intimacy and loyalty. Although a cuckold relationship can be difficult, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the couple. Here are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship.

1. Carry out the practice in the correct manner

Many cuckold relationships involve a married couple who are both trusting of each other. The male will often get sexually aroused by watching or knowing about his partner having sexual relations with other people. There needs to be a level of trust and intimacy to start with in a cuckold relationship. The practice is never a good idea if the relationship is already having problems or there are deep-seated trust issues. There is a risk that the relationship could break down if these issues are not addressed first. The couple will need to discuss whether having a cuckold relationship is right for them and they may reach this decision based on a number of different factors, such as how long they have been together, the level of trust they have, and the state of their current sex life.

2. Be loyal

A couple involved in a cuckold relationship will need to remain loyal to each other and the practice should never be used as an excuse for one partner to get out of a loveless marriage, or if a relationship that is breaking down. Each partner will need to convince the other that the practice is strictly sexual, and that emotions should be left to one side. The husband may fear his wife will develop an emotional relationship with the third party, and this will also need to be addressed before the practice takes place. Cuckoldry should be seen as a normal, healthy sexual fetish and not something that will damage the lives of anyone who wants to take part in the act. Individuals will need to have a certain level of self-esteem and confidence and be secure in their own relationship to differentiate between the sexual act and any emotional aspect of the practice. Before taking part in cuckoldry, both partners will need to sit down and have a long and frank discussion about what they want to get out of the act, whether they have any concerns, what the practice will entail, and whether there will be any long-lasting effect on the future of the relationship. Above all the couple must establish rules they can both live with. Another good piece of advice is to read stories here: Cuckold Stories

3. Keep it fun

During the act or after the act has taken place, there should be no feelings of betrayal or guilt. The cuckold couple should see their relationship as one that is sexually varied and open to experimentation, rather than one that is sinful or shameful. Perhaps it would be good to equate the practice to a hobby or interest rather than a way of life. There will be more components to a cuckold couple than just sex, and there will be a number of foundations on which the relationship is based on such as trust, loyalty, and devotion, which will take precedence over any sexual act.

4. Be safe

Once a couple has decided that they want to partake in cuckoldry, they will then have to choose a third party. In most cases it is the women who will be having sexual relations with a different partner, and she must make sure that she is completely comfortable with her new partner. The couple will need to choose a third party that they can trust. This can either be someone that the couple knows or someone they have met on a swingers website where they will be able to meet like-minded individuals who enjoy threesomes and foursomes. It is advisable that all three members of the party discuss what they want to get out of the sexual act, either in person, or online, and whether there are any pre-requisites or general dos and don’ts. This can help to ease the mind of everyone involved, allowing them to enjoy the practice much more. Communication is a very important aspect of the cuckold relationship, and all issues will need to be addressed before anything develops.

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Talking about hotwifing is one thing but did you know there are 3 places you should consider the hotwife should have sex with her lover at?  A common question from couples who have decided to take their first forays into the hotwife lifestyle is, in effect, “where are we going to do it?”.

And it’s a question with an answer that’s not always as simple and straightforward as you might think. It’s a little amusing at times, because it always turns out the fantasy has never really developed beyond the “watching my wife in bed” stage for most men. Exactly where that bed is doesn’t really enter into the equation.

And it’s important because men and women often have very different views on a lot of this.

So let’s look at some of the common answers to this question, along with the pros and cons of each.

1. Your own bed.

This is the obvious one and, if truth be told, it seems to be where most couples gravitate eventually, with the wife bringing her lover home and making love to him in the marital bed either with the husband present or not.

The advantages are obvious: it’s easy, has minimal arrangements necessary, and you feel like you’re on home ground, which can be very important.

The potential problem, though, is many women feel a deep emotional attachment to the marital bed, and may be very uncomfortable at having a man who’s not her husband in it. See my other articles for how unwanted emotions can creep in when you’re hotwifing, and how to deal with them.

2. In your wife’s lover’s bed

This is another fairly obvious answer and while it might be easier on the woman, it’s often harder on the man, especially if he’s not present.

One of the things about hotwifing is the husband often has the desire, almost a need, really, to watch his wife in action. While this can present difficulties all of its own, you’ll often find her new lover is not comfortable having another man in his bedroom — especially when it’s his lover’s husband!

And, of course, there’s also the fact many husbands, for all sorts of good reasons, don’t feel right with their wives being alone in another man’s house. This isn’t necessarily just about the sex they’re having, either — there’s the whole safety issue, whether it’s actually rational or not.

3. In a hotel room

This is perhaps the best choice of all, especially for couples are new to the hotwife lifestyle.

The biggest disadvantage is it obviously costs money, but you can split the cost between her and him. Or, if you decide to meet there and get two rooms (so she can come back to yours when she’s finished making love with him), you’d pay for your own.

But the advantage of this way of it is you’re all on neutral ground. Even if you’re not all staying the night, then you can wait down in the bar for her. It gives you both that feeling of safety and security because you’re close enough to be supportive, but far enough away not to be a pest. Just make sure your wife’s lover books and pays for the room in his own name (with ID, too) even if she then reimburses him.

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WHAT CUCKOLDING AND HOTWIFING SHARE WITH SPERM COMPETITION SYNDROME

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 28, 2016

Curious What Cuckolding and Hotwifing Share With Sperm Competition Syndrome? If you are a married woman whose husband has expressed desire to see you have sex with another man or if you are a married man who longs to see your wife make love to another man then you should know that this behavior is perfectly natural. It is what is known as the sperm competition syndrome. Almost all men are born with this syndrome. Some simply choose to express it freely while others choose to hide it. This syndrome has ledREAD MORE

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LEARN THE JOYS OF HOTWIFING IN A HAPPY MARRIAGE

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 20, 2016

Learn The Joys Of Hotwifing In A Happy Marriage. Love is all about sharing and having collective experience with another human being. The same is true for any marriage and this is why it is important to share things inside of this relationship as well. For many couples, this idea is valid at the beginning of their marriage, but then gradually falls apart, either with a lot of noise or silently, day by day. For others, who can be even newlyweds, the same idea might sound true, but at theREAD MORE

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HOTWIFING ISSUES: DO MEN LOVE THEIR WIVES?

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | March 30, 2015

Do you believe that men can still love their wives even though they are involved in Hotwifing? Most women wonder if their men are really into them, reason being that their soul mate advises them to be intimately involved with other men. Some of these women may wonder if what they are being required to do is really possible. It is easy to come into terms with what these women are thinking of the Hotwifing issue, this is because these women have some outlook on how relationship should be and whatREAD MORE

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Cuckold, you’ve probably heard the word and to some extent, you are somewhat certain it is “kinky”… but what really is a cuckold? What happens? And most significantly…what are its benefits? Contrary to common opinion, cuckolding has a lot of surprising benefits to a couple.

In the current times, Cuckolding has become among the fastest rising alternative lifestyles. It is a discrete lifestyle featuring a husband and his wife where by mutual consent, they agree to involve another man to have sexual relations with the wife or the wife has an alternative of dating other men. In this arrangement, the husband is referred to as the cuckold, the wife acquires the term ‘hotwife’, and the other man is called the bull.

Cuckolds come in three major types; submissive, forced bisexual, voyeurs and extreme cuckolding. In submissive cuckold, the husband achieves sexual satisfaction by seeing how much more the ‘bull’ is superior to him in bed. In forced bisexual, satisfaction is achieved since he is allowed in a non-judgmental setting, to explore his innate gay fantasies by watching another man naked and having sex. For the voyeurs simply find pleasure merely by watching another man making his wife climax. In extreme cuckolding the will be bred, inseminated and impregnated by her bull with full knowledge and consent of everyone.

Why Women Enjoy Cuckolding

There are numerous benefits for a woman in a cuckold relationship and one is that it satisfies an increase in libido normally experienced by women between 27 years of age and 45. Moreover, in this relationship, a woman is the centre of attention since she gets most pleasure which ultimately plays positively to her overall happiness. Finally, it allows them to indulge in their sexual fantasies and desires of multiple partners in a safe non-judgmental setting.

Why Men Enjoy Cuckolding

Husbands experience remarkable excitement in the process of getting their wives ready for the other man. For them, the thought inspires excitement which if correctly handled, is sexually satisfying. Aside from the anticipation, some husbands may achieve satisfaction and orgasms on the very act of penetration. For cuckolding to be deemed authentic, the husband though in the sidelines, must watch the wife getting pleased by another guy. Most couples that have done this will acclaim that their husbands get off instantly on seeing the ‘bull’ insert their penis into their wives. The ensuing expressions, utterances and moans instantly arouse their husbands.

Although by the norms of a deceitful society, it is deemed wrong, the resulting benefits and satisfaction it provides for the individuals as highlighted by testimonies of numerous cuckolding couples and researches are immense and un-imaginable.

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WHAT CUCKOLDING AND HOTWIFING SHARE WITH SPERM COMPETITION SYNDROME

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | July 28, 2016

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4 TIPS TO MAKE A CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIP WORK

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | January 28, 2015

A cuckold relationship can often throw up a number of challenges, and this type of lifestyle is not for everyone. The relationship involves one member of the partnership, usually the male, watching, or knowing about his partner having sexual relations outside of the relationship. A cuckold relationship will often be one that is based on trust, intimacy and loyalty. Although a cuckold relationship can be difficult, it can sometimes strengthen the bond between the couple. Here are some tips on how to make the most out of a cuckold relationship.READ MORE

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CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIPS

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | June 23, 2014

There are a wide range of reasons for a couple to involve in a cuckold relationship. In some cases, the man is the one initiating this lifestyle, maybe as part of a sexual fantasy of seeing his female with other men. He mentions his fantasies to his woman partner, who reacts to it by accepting the change in lifestyle. Other men become attracted to the cuckold lifestyle when they age and lose sexual stamina. Take for instance, a husband who in his 50s is unable to please his partner sexually.READ MORE

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A BASIC UNDERSTANDING OF CUCKOLD RELATIONSHIPS

Mike Hatcher, Top Swinger | February 25, 2014

A cuckold type of relationship is rare and very few people live this type of lifestyle. There are many challenges so only a few people manage to make it a success. In a cuckold relationship, a partner which tends to be the male, watches his wife/girlfriend engage in sexual relations with another man. The wife/girlfriend or in some cases the male partner will choose a man known as a cuckold bull to pleasure her.The male remains loyal while allowing his wife/girlfriend to fulfill her desires. The key pillars for thoseREAD MORE

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A Cuckquean is a very unique kind of relationship. Here, a woman enjoys watching her husband having sex with another woman. This kind of relationship offers some advantages to both men and women. Although most people feel that a woman will get jealous if she sees her husband with another woman, but if you are a fetish lover, then you will definitely enjoy it.

You will enter this kind of relationship only after having a proper discussion with your husband. Hence, you will obviously not feel betrayed because you know that you are not being cheated on.

After seeing your husband with another woman, you will go through a lot of feelings initially. It may also increase your desire to have sex.

The advantages which a cuckquean relationship offers to a woman are:

1. Satisfy your fetish:

Cuckquean is also a fetish and just like every other fetish, it has to be satisfied. Hence, it will be best to go forward and arrange for your husband to have sex with another woman. It will be slightly difficult in the beginning. Hence, you should sit with your lover and discuss about your relationship. After you manage to strike out a deal with him, it will be much easier for you and you will enjoy the new relationship.

2. Avoid Adulterous Partner:

If you someday find out that your partner is adulterous, then you will get extremely hurt and disappointed. However, since you enter a cuckquean relationship voluntarily, you won’t feel betrayed. It is actually a very strange and different kind of feeling when you first see your husband with another person. If your husband enjoys the sex, then you will also feel mentally satisfied, that you have allowed your lover to fulfill his sexual desires.

3. Make sure that your husband is fully satisfied:

Many women are unable to meet the sexual needs of their husbands because of some reason. Hence, they often feel guilty and feel that they are stopping their husband from living a satisfied sexual life. If you are one of those women, then entering a cuckquean relationship will be the best and the most effective option. This way, you can still be in a happy relationship with your husband without feeling guilty. It will make you feel much better. You can start this kind of relationship in many ways. But initially, you have to find a woman, who you think will be perfect for the both of you.

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